A memoir is the story of your life, as you saw it, as you understood it. It is less formal than an autobiography or a biography. It tells the truth, not necessarily all the truth. Reasons for writing a memoir include:

1. Self-understanding: Some facts will speak for themselves. Some will need interpretation. Some will reveal what was unclear to you then. Some will give you more insight into yourself and into those who influenced you.

2. Explanations to others: Your audience can be your spouse, your family, your friends, neighbors, colleagues, the world. You had reasons for the choices you made. Explain them. You learned from the outcomes. Share those lessons. You may want to take credit or accept blame. Do so.

3. History: You will not be available forever to tell the stories that deserve to be told. Your memoir lives on. You may choose to add leaves and blossoms to the bare branches of your family tree. An occasional knot-hole or broken limb may deserve mentioning and explanation.

4. Thanks. You want to thank publicly and at length those who have enriched your life. Our memoir thanked those who have saved my wife’s life and helped keep her alive.

     Why hire me as a coach?

1. I have recently self-published [though Outskirts Press] my book: Ting and I: A Memoir of Love, Courage, and Devotion. I know how to do it and can help you find a path to publication. You will not need to convince an agent or a major publishing house, both difficult paths to publication for the new writer.

2. I have been a researcher, a teacher, and a writer. I can help you organize, research, write, edit, proofread, and publish your memoir. Currently, I have a few other clients and have time for several more.

3. I have broad experience and years of higher education to aid in giving you insightful and impartial assistance with your work.

4. I will help you get organized, get going, and keep going.

For a free initial consultation, call me at (845) 778-4204 or write to me at

douglas@tingandi.com or at 264 East Drive, Walden, NY 12586.

Write on!